privacy

last updated november 15, 2026

what we collect

• What you give us: your name, phone number, zip code, birth year, gender and your quiz answers.
• What happens on Regulars: nights you sign up for and attend, your ratings, and who you choose to keep or see again.
• Billing: Stripe handles your card. We never see or store your card number.

what we use it for

• Putting you in groups you'll enjoy, near you, with people close in age.
• Texting you invites, details about your night and membership updates.
• Keeping Regulars safe, including reviewing reports.
• Improving how we match people, using answers across members.

what your group sees

Your first name. The night before, they may see your fun fact and things you have in common (like "someone else is a bengals fan too") without your name attached. Your dating answers, ratings and who you picked are never shown to anyone. A match is only revealed if you both picked each other, and phone numbers are only swapped if you both reply SHARE.

who we share it with

We don't sell your information. We share it only with the services that run Regulars (texting, payments, hosting and our database), and when the law requires it. Mobile numbers and texting consent are never shared with anyone for their own marketing.

your choices

• Reply STOP to stop texts.
• Text CANCEL MEMBERSHIP to end your membership.
• Reply HELP and ask us to delete your account and data, and we will, except what we have to keep for billing or legal reasons.

security

We keep your data in access-controlled systems and limit who can see it. No system is perfect, and we'll tell you if something goes wrong that affects you.

contact

Reply HELP to any text from us.